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0px 1.8em;padding:0px;\\\"><span style=\\\"border:0px;margin:0px;padding:0px;font-size:16px;\\\">一个人炫耀什么，说明内心缺少什么。</span></p> \\\n<p style=\\\"border:0px;font-size:100%;margin:0.63em 0px 1.8em;padding:0px;\\\">一个人越在意的地方，就是最令他自卑的地方。 </p> \\\n<p style=\\\"border:0px;font-size:100%;margin:0.63em 0px 1.8em;padding:0px;\\\">人都是比较有面子思想，有时候吹得很厉害的，可能是内心缺少什么的证明，这需要好好观察。 </p> \\\n<p style=\\\"border:0px;font-size:100%;margin:0.63em 0px 1.8em;padding:0px;\\\">欲盖弥彰，因为缺少而不想被别人知道，所以就会以炫耀来掩盖。所以，如果你想知道的话，过分的炫耀也就给了你提示。 </p> \\\n<p style=\\\"border:0px;font-size:100%;margin:0.63em 0px 1.8em;padding:0px;\\\">你想知道一个人的内心缺少什么，不看别的，就看他炫耀什么；想知道一个人自卑什么，不看别的，就看他掩饰什么。</p> \\\n<p style=\\\"border:0px;font-size:100%;margin:0.63em 0px 1.8em;padding:0px;text-align:right;\\\"><span style=\\\"border:0px;margin:0px;padding:0px;font-size:16px;\\\">——卢志文《我的〈凡人箴言录〉》</span></p> \\\n<p style=\\\"border:0px;font-size:100%;margin:0.63em 0px 1.8em;padding:0px;\\\"><span style=\\\"border:0px;margin:0px;padding:0px;font-size:16px;\\\"><span style=\\\"border:0px;margin:0px;padding:0px;font-size:100%;\\\">为什么炫耀，因为重视；</span></span></p> \\\n<p style=\\\"border:0px;font-size:100%;margin:0.63em 0px 1.8em;padding:0px;\\\"><span style=\\\"border:0px;margin:0px;padding:0px;font-size:100%;\\\">为什么重视，因为渴望；</span></p> \\\n<p style=\\\"border:0px;font-size:100%;margin:0.63em 0px 1.8em;padding:0px;\\\"><span style=\\\"border:0px;margin:0px;padding:0px;font-size:100%;\\\">为什么渴望，因为缺乏。</span></p> \\\n<p style=\\\"border:0px;font-size:100%;margin:0.63em 0px 1.8em;padding:0px;\\\"><span style=\\\"border:0px;margin:0px;padding:0px;font-size:16px;\\\">诚如你所说，如果我炫耀钱，就表明我很重视这个，认为除了这个，没什么可以体现我自己的，或者除了这个，我没值得大家看中的东西，那么，深究他的内心，他为什么会有这样的想法，就表示他曾经多少缺乏钱 ，多少渴望金钱，那你能说他的内心中不缺钱么，这种人，心里永远不安定，对钱永远会如苍逐血办渴求，只有钱才能填平心中的忐忑，抹杀过去的自卑。这也就是为什么很多爆发户喜欢炫耀金钱的根本原因。 </span></p> \\\n<p style=\\\"border:0px;font-size:100%;margin:0.63em 0px 1.8em;padding:0px;\\\"><span style=\\\"border:0px;margin:0px;padding:0px;font-size:16px;\\\">比如学识，有人在别人面前总爱卖弄自己的学问，这样可能正说明他没有多学识；再比如快乐，如果这个人极力表现自己有多么快乐，可能他内心的感受正相反，是非常痛苦的。不过如果想你说的，如果一个人有钱而极力要向别显示自己的富裕的话，那么他的人生境界必然不会很高，可能正说明他的内心是空虚的。</span></p> \\\n<p style=\\\"border:0px;font-size:100%;margin:0.63em 0px 1.8em;padding:0px;\\\"><span style=\\\"border:0px;margin:0px;padding:0px;font-size:16px;\\\">将名利视为唯一的追求对象，其程度的多寡即代表你失败的程度——这不仅是就个人的生活而言，经济的生活也往往是如此。</span></p> \\\n<p style=\\\"border:0px;font-size:100%;margin:0.63em 0px 1.8em;padding:0px;\\\"><span style=\\\"border:0px;margin:0px;padding:0px;font-size:16px;\\\">一看就是家里没有什么文化底蕴的，不是煤老板、暴发户就是投机钻营的贪官的后代，这样的炫耀除了显露自己的无知和浅薄，精神的极大空虚外，看不出一点意义。</span></p> \\\n<p style=\\\"border:0px;font-size:100%;margin:0.63em 0px 1.8em;padding:0px;\\\"><span style=\\\"border:0px;margin:0px;padding:0px;font-size:16px;\\\">不同层次的人不同的活法，就是自己感觉舒服、充实就可以了。名牌不用也不会死人，以前的公司好多富人股东，几十亿身价，家里也很普通。</span></p> \\\n<p style=\\\"border:0px;font-size:100%;margin:0.63em 0px 1.8em;padding:0px;\\\"><span 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