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#f7f7f7;\\\">速读摘要</span></span></span></span></div><div style=\\\"padding:0px 18px;text-align:start;background-color:#f7f7f7;margin-top: 0;margin-bottom: 0\\\"><span style=\\\"font-family: -webkit-standard;\\\"><span style=\\\"font-size: 14px;\\\"><span style=\\\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0);\\\"><span style=\\\"background-color: #f7f7f7;\\\">这五分之一的学生中有很大一部分是在大一结束时选择退出的，因为就在这一年他们要经历西点军校最为著名的&quot;野兽&quot;计划，经历生理、心理、社交等一系列残酷考验。人是一种习惯的动物，一旦你开始为自己的失败找理由，有困难就逃跑将会成为你的本能。越是当你已经非常累，或者感到受委屈的时候，你就越容易出错。尽管公文再有三四个小时就要发出，沈葆桢也已经十分辛苦，但是他丝毫不急、不乱，更也不觉得是委屈，默默地掌灯重写。</span></span></span></span></div><div style=\\\"padding: 8px 18px 16px 16px;margin-top: 0;margin-bottom:12px;text-align:start;background-color:#f7f7f7;\\\"><span style=\\\"font-family: -webkit-standard;\\\"><span style=\\\"font-size: 12px;\\\"><span style=\\\"color:#7B848C ;\\\">原文约 </span><span style=\\\"color:#00B548;\\\">2587 </span><span style=\\\"color: #7B848C;\\\"> 字 </span><span style=\\\"color: #D9D9D9;white-space: pre\\\">  |  </span><span 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style=\\\"font-weight:400;margin:0;padding:0;font-size:22px;line-height:1.4;margin-bottom:14px\\\"> 西点军校最贵一课：没强大内心的人，没资格谈人生 </h2><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;margin-bottom:22px;line-height:20px;font-size:0;word-wrap:break-word;word-break:break-all\\\"><span style=\\\"padding:0;display:inline-block;vertical-align:middle;margin:0 10px 10px 0;font-size:15px;-webkit-tap-highlight-color:rgba(0,0,0,0);color:rgba(0,0,0,0.3)\\\"> 阿秀 </span><span style=\\\"padding:0;display:inline-block;vertical-align:middle;margin:0 10px 10px 0;font-size:15px;-webkit-tap-highlight-color:rgba(0,0,0,0);position:relative\\\"><a style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;color:#576b95;text-decoration:none;-webkit-tap-highlight-color:rgba(0,0,0,0)\\\"> LinkedIn </a></span><em style=\\\"padding:0;font-style:normal;display:inline-block;vertical-align:middle;margin:0 10px 10px 0;font-size:15px;-webkit-tap-highlight-color:rgba(0,0,0,0);color:rgba(0,0,0,0.3)\\\"></em></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;overflow:hidden;color:#333;font-size:17px;word-wrap:break-word;-webkit-hyphens:auto;-ms-hyphens:auto;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;position:relative;z-index:0;__visibility:hidden\\\"><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em\\\"><img src=\\\":/90ef375aac104d788c46d3963540f16a\\\" type=\\\"image/gif\\\" data-filename=\\\"640.gif\\\" style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;height:auto !important\\\"/></p><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">尽管西点军校的招生选拔已经足够严苛，但是每年录取的学生中还是有五分之一选择了中途退出。</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">这五分之一的学生中有很大一部分是在大一结束时选择退出的，因为就在这一年他们要经历西点军校最为著名的“野兽”计划，经历生理、心理、社交等一系列残酷考验。</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">坚持不住的人，最终只好选择出局。</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">这一现象引起了宾夕法尼亚大学知名心理学教授安吉拉·达科沃斯的兴趣。</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">难道入学前那些严苛的智商、情商、天赋测试还不足以证明这些学生足够有潜力吗？为什么“野兽”计划还能够淘汰如此多学生？</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">要知道这些退出的学生原本完全有资格进入哈佛、耶鲁等世界名校的。</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">到底是“野兽”计划故意为难学生，还是这个计划真的发现了这些学生的人格缺陷？</span></strong><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box 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!important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">达科沃斯展开了一系列被称为“坚毅测试”的研究，对历年“野兽”测试中成功或者失败的学生进行了调查。</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">发现最终完成该计划的学生大部分有极为成功的事业、美满的家庭，而他们成功的秘诀就是</span><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px;color:rgb(10,102,194)\\\"><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\">他们当年在“野兽”里学到的那些秘诀，让他们成为了富有激情、韧性、进取心的人，从而取得了巨大成功。</strong></span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">达科沃斯的研究成果被总结为十条经验，被看作是西点军校培养真正优秀学生的真正秘密，也被称为西点军校最昂贵也是最有价值的课程：</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">没有强大内心的人，就没有资格谈人生。</span></strong><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\"></span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\"> </span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">那到底是哪10条经验呢？这10条经验对我们的职业生涯会不会有帮助呢？</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\"><br 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!important;overflow-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></p><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em;font-family:-apple-system-font,system-ui,&quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;,&quot;PingFang SC&quot;,&quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;,Arial,sans-serif;letter-spacing:0.544px;white-space:normal;background-color:rgb(255,255,255);box-sizing:border-box !important;overflow-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;overflow-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></p><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em;font-family:-apple-system-font,system-ui,&quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;,&quot;PingFang SC&quot;,&quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;,Arial,sans-serif;letter-spacing:0.544px;white-space:normal;background-color:rgb(255,255,255);box-sizing:border-box !important;overflow-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:rgb(10,102,194)\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px;font-family:mp-quote,-apple-system-font,BlinkMacSystemFont,&quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;,&quot;PingFang SC&quot;,&quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;,Arial,sans-serif;box-sizing:border-box !important;overflow-wrap:break-word !important\\\">一、</span><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-family:mp-quote,-apple-system-font,BlinkMacSystemFont,&quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;,&quot;PingFang SC&quot;,&quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;,Arial,sans-serif;font-size:16px\\\">即便已经一败涂地，</span><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px;font-family:mp-quote,-apple-system-font,BlinkMacSystemFont,&quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;,&quot;PingFang SC&quot;,&quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;,Arial,sans-serif\\\">你仍然要坚持奋斗</span></span></strong></p><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">曾经有一个记者问拳王阿里：你每天做多少个仰卧起坐？</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">阿里回答道：</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">“我从来不数自己做了多少个仰卧起坐，我会一直做到肌肉痛到实在无法坚持，这才是关键。</span><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">”</span></strong></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><img src=\\\":/d4824c931e51438893dc78a268e24c3b\\\" type=\\\"image/jpeg\\\" data-filename=\\\"640.jpg\\\" style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;height:auto !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;overflow-wrap:break-word !important;__visibility:visible !important;width:574px\\\"/><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\"></span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">其实在职场上也一样，在很多艰难时刻你都会面临两种选择：</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">要么是含着眼泪硬扛下去，要么是让困难、痛苦把你打倒在地。</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">人是一种习惯的动物，一旦你开始为自己的失败找理由，有困难就逃跑将会成为你的本能。</span></strong><em style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-style:italic\\\"><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\"></span><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\"></span></strong></em></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">换句话说，如果你总是坚持让自己扛过苦难，那你最终才能够成就伟大。</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;overflow-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></p><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:rgb(10,102,194)\\\"><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px;font-family:mp-quote,-apple-system-font,BlinkMacSystemFont,&quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;,&quot;PingFang SC&quot;,&quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;,Arial,sans-serif\\\">二、你必须晚点吃棉花糖</span></strong></span><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></p></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;overflow-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></p><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">斯坦福大学有一个非常著名的“棉花糖”实验，实验者会让一个孩子独自在一个房间里面对一块棉花糖15分钟。</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">实验者离开之前会告诉这个孩子，如果你忍不住了你可以吃掉它，但是如果你15分钟不吃这块棉花糖，那你就会得到两块棉花糖作奖励。</span></div><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;overflow-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></p><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><img src=\\\":/d1e987cb972f4f81930e453a6091831a\\\" type=\\\"image/jpeg\\\" data-filename=\\\"640.jpg\\\" style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;background-color:rgb(238,237,235);border-width:1px;border-style:solid;border-color:rgb(238,237,235);background-size:22px;background-position:center center;background-repeat:no-repeat;box-sizing:border-box !important;overflow-wrap:break-word !important;height:336.609px !important;__visibility:visible !important;width:645px !important\\\" width=\\\"100%\\\"/><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;overflow-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;overflow-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">斯坦福棉花糖实验中三分之一的孩子没有吃棉花糖，他们的人生大多非常成功、幸福，吃掉棉花糖的孩子们则相对过着贫穷、失意的生活，其中有不少被毒品、酗酒、肥胖等问题困扰。 </span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">最终证明，那些能够抵御诱惑的孩子们后来的人生都很顺遂、成功，学历好、工作成功、家庭美满，甚至被肥胖困扰的都很少。</span><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\"></span><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\"></span><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\"></span></strong></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\"> </span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">“坚毅测试”发现对一个人的成功来说，耐心和延迟享受是一个非常关键的因素。</span></strong></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">达科沃斯说，真正内心强大的人知道只有当他能够忍受时间和欲望的煎熬，他才有机会实现梦想。</span></div><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;overflow-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></p><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:rgb(10,102,194)\\\"><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px;font-family:mp-quote,-apple-system-font,BlinkMacSystemFont,&quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;,&quot;PingFang SC&quot;,&quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;,Arial,sans-serif\\\">三、即使犯了超傻X的错误，也要无所畏惧、不断尝试，直到成功</span></strong></span></p><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;letter-spacing:0.612px;box-sizing:border-box !important;overflow-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">最近威廉玛丽学院调查了800位企业家，发现这些人中最成功的那一批都有两个共同特质：</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">从不害怕失败，而且从不在乎别人是怎么看他们的。</span></strong><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\"></span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">换句话说，这个世界上最成功的那些人都不害怕失败，甚至把失败看作是人生的必经之路。</span></div><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;overflow-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></p><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:rgb(10,102,194)\\\"><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px;font-family:mp-quote,-apple-system-font,BlinkMacSystemFont,&quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;,&quot;PingFang SC&quot;,&quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;,Arial,sans-serif\\\">四、你是个大人了，你必须学会控制情绪</span></strong></span></p><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></p><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">很多人没有意识到的是，坏情绪会不断的削弱你内心的力量，一个成年人无法控制自己的情绪，那后果可能是灾难性的。</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">如果让情绪控制了你的大脑，那你就可能会丧失了清醒的思考力、判断力、意志力，以及解决问题的能力。</span></strong><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\"></span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">事实也证明，容易情绪失控的人很多都有脾气暴躁、攻击性强、过度自负等一系列问题。</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\"> </span></div><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em;text-align:center\\\"><img src=\\\":/6120d99fc41c47fab311c351ac22f1c3\\\" type=\\\"image/jpeg\\\" data-filename=\\\"640.jpg\\\" style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;height:auto !important\\\"/></p><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\"></span><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">尽管情绪这东西看不见摸不着，但是我们还是可以有效的控制情绪。</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">例如你可以在每次自己要发脾气之前问自己：我的怒气从何而来？我为什么要发脾气？发脾气有什么意义？坚持久了，你就可以控制自己的情绪了。</span></div><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;overflow-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></p><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:rgb(10,102,194)\\\"><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px;font-family:mp-quote,-apple-system-font,BlinkMacSystemFont,&quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;,&quot;PingFang SC&quot;,&quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;,Arial,sans-serif\\\">五、你必须打那个，你不想打的电话</span></strong></span></p><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></p><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">有很多时候我们不得不做一些我们非常不想做的事情，因为我们知道这些事情从长远来看都是很有价值的：</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">炒掉不负责的员工、给陌生人打电话推销、通宵工作为了把公司从死亡线上拉回来，或者是为了一个至关重要的项目不懈奋斗。</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">在面对困难的时候说放弃真的很简单，但是最优秀的人知道最佳选择也是必选项，并不是放弃而是“开始干吧”！</span></strong><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\"></span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">每一次你在害怕的时候都没有真正解决问题，也是在浪费时间。那些真正敢于打出“不想打的电话”的人都无一例外的是踏石留印、抓铁有痕的人。</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:rgb(10,102,194)\\\"><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px;font-family:mp-quote,-apple-system-font,BlinkMacSystemFont,&quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;,&quot;PingFang SC&quot;,&quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;,Arial,sans-serif\\\">六、你必须毫不迟疑地追随直觉</span></strong></span></p><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></p><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">追随直觉和莽撞之间是有很明确的分界线的。</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">追随直觉的前提是，你已经非常理性、客观、全面的分析了问题的所有角度。</span></strong><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\"></span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">即使是当事情的走向并不明朗或者不符合你的预期时，你也会真诚的相信自己的内心已经做出了正确的选择，然后拼劲全力的去实现目标。</span></div><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></p><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:rgb(10,102,194)\\\"><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px;font-family:mp-quote,-apple-system-font,BlinkMacSystemFont,&quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;,&quot;PingFang SC&quot;,&quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;,Arial,sans-serif\\\">七、即使全世界都反对，你也要勇往直前</span></strong></span></p><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></p><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">当有人支持你的时候，不管是选定一个新方向还是做一件困难的事情都会比较容易。</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">但是“坚毅测试”发现，真正考验你的内心力量大小的是在所有人都不支持你、反对你的时候，你是不是还能始终如一。</span></strong></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\"></span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">内心真正强大的人并不是喜欢没有人支持、没有人陪伴，他们只是决不放弃，证明给别人看自己是对的，然后就会有人支持你了。</span></div><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-family:mp-quote,-apple-system-font,BlinkMacSystemFont,&quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;,&quot;PingFang SC&quot;,&quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;,Arial,sans-serif;font-size:16px\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></span></p><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em;text-align:center\\\"><img src=\\\":/057d62e2bccd4e93ac0793a4c6f12db8\\\" type=\\\"image/jpeg\\\" data-filename=\\\"640.jpg\\\" style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;height:auto !important\\\"/></p><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-family:mp-quote,-apple-system-font,BlinkMacSystemFont,&quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;,&quot;PingFang SC&quot;,&quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;,Arial,sans-serif;font-size:16px\\\"></span><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></p><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:rgb(10,102,194)\\\"><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-family:mp-quote,-apple-system-font,BlinkMacSystemFont,&quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;,&quot;PingFang SC&quot;,&quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;,Arial,sans-serif;font-size:16px\\\">八、不管有多急、多累，</span><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px;font-family:mp-quote,-apple-system-font,BlinkMacSystemFont,&quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;,&quot;PingFang SC&quot;,&quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;,Arial,sans-serif\\\">你都要竭尽所能地慢慢来</span></strong></span></p><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></p><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">越是当你已经非常累，非常急，或者感到受委屈的时候，你就越容易出错。这种情况下你的内心会受到极大的考验。</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">晚清名臣沈葆桢是林则徐的女婿，据说林则徐曾让沈葆桢彻夜抄写一篇加急公文。</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">为了试试沈葆桢的耐性，林则徐故意把沈葆桢誊了三四个小时的公文扔在一边，找借口让他重抄。</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">尽管公文再有三四个小时就要发出，沈葆桢也已经十分辛苦，但是他丝毫不急、不乱，更也不觉得是委屈，默默地掌灯重写。</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">沈葆桢写好后把文件呈给林则徐再看。</span><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">林则徐大悦：墨迹丝毫不乱，字迹清秀比第一次犹有过之，此子宠辱不惊，未来必成大器。</span></strong></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;overflow-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">越是忙、急、累、委屈，就越容易出错，这个时候就请你慢慢来，小心点。</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:rgb(10,102,194)\\\"><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">九、你必须善待</span><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px;font-family:mp-quote,-apple-system-font,BlinkMacSystemFont,&quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;,&quot;PingFang SC&quot;,&quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;,&quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;,Arial,sans-serif\\\">你的敌人</span></strong></span></div><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;overflow-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></p><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">当你的敌人对你倾斜恶意时，他也是在期望把你拉到跟他一样的水平上，把你变成跟他一样的人。</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">而内心强大的人绝不会允许别人掌控自己的人生，他们绝对不会因此对自己的敌人或者讨厌的人变粗鲁。</span></strong><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\"></span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:16px\\\">他们会像对待别人一样对自己的敌人，耐心、善良、包容。因为他们绝不容许有任何一个人把自己变low ，即使是敌人也不行。</span></div><div style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important\\\"><br style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;overflow-wrap:break-word !important\\\"/></div><p style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;clear:both;min-height:1em\\\"><span style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;-webkit-box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:rgb(10,102,194)\\\"><strong style=\\\"margin:0;padding:0;max-width:100% 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